Happy birthday to me!

one hundred

one hundred (Photo credit: Violentz)

Well, it’s not exactly my birthday (which, in case you are interested, is later this month), but this is a momentous day for my blog – my 100th post! *cue balloons and streamers* Yes, yes, I know. It seems like I’ve been doing this forever – or, at least, it does for me, which I’m not sure is a good or a bad thing. Anyway, to mark the occasion I thought I’d talk about social media or, put another way, internet engagement. Appropriate, no?:)

I’m the first to admit that I don’t engage as well as I should. In many ways I’m a parasite on the net: I put stuff out there, but I don’t give back. In other words, I post but I don’t comment. Now, I have been trying to be better at that this year, but like all good intentions it has fallen by the wayside a little. My participation is dropping off.

Of course, as Linda Lee Greene discussed so eloquently on my blog a couple of weeks ago, participation in social media can be a slippery slope. It’s all too easy to get sucked in and burn out, or ignore what you’ve been working on. On the other side of the coin, though, is that if you are engaging with people then they are more likely to have positive feelings about you and are thus more likely to check out your work. Talking with people online, and making them feel important, can have direct – and beneficial – impacts on your profile hits, Facebook likes, blog follows and, most importantly, sales.

It might sound callous to think of it like that – these are, after all, people with whom you are engaging – but we all have to be entrepreneurs these days, don’t we? If this is a professional engagement (that is, if you are using a professional Facebook page, Twitter account or blog, for example) then it all comes down to marketing. That’s why we have these accounts, and why we use them. And maybe that’s why I don’t engage as well as I should, because, at this stage, I don’t have anything to market. I know that the more I get out there, the more my name will be known when novel #1 does come out, but part of me feels that I’m pushing  myself on people too much. Sigh. Like Linda, I’m not cut out to be a marketer.

I will, naturally, attempt to work on this. After all, that’s part of what my new years resolutions this year were all about. But I am also wary of the slippery slope of becoming too engaged in social media. If I spend too much time talking to people I’ve never met, I run the  risk of alienating my real life friends, colleagues and family members. If I spend my computer time posting on Goodreads and Facebook, then I’m not going to be writing my novel. And that’s what this is all about, isn’t it?

So today I am using my 100th blog post to think about how I’m using social media. I love to interact with everyone here, and I do intend to get better at it (comment, Emilydarn you!!) but I do think that finding that balance is what I should really be focusing on. Because after all, if I burn out like Linda did, then what’s the point of all this anyway?


PS I’m including forum participation in things I should be working on. Yes, Peter, you will hopefully be seeing me around again soon!:)


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6 responses to “Happy birthday to me!

  1. Happy Birthday, Emily and here’s hoping for many many more good and happy and healthy exchanges with you via the social network. Linda Lee Greene

  2. Happy up-coming birthday – I hope it’s fantastical, inspiring and… weird. In a good way. Just something different.
    I seem to have the same problem in some ways as I am trying to build an online presence but at this stage I have no book to market as yet – (hopefully the first draft will be finished mid-2014) and so I feel limited in the ultimate interaction I can do. Although I must say that you seem to be doing alright with your blog:)
    This year I am going to be trying to guest post more and feature more guest posts too as well as commenting more… there just aint enough minutes in the day is there? *sigh*

    • Thank you Alison! It’s a strange feeling, isn’t it? Trying to market something that doesn’t exist yet? Though it’s very heartening that you think I’m making a reasonable start. Oh, and if you’re looking for somewhere to guest post, feel free to drop me a line. I’m always on the lookout for new people.:) Thanks for the comment!

  3. These are awkward issues. I, too, am no marketer and I don’t want to BE a marketer. I just want people to magically buy my stuff.:)

    While marketing is one aspect of social networking,it’s not the only one. I’ve learnt a lot from others on the net, and I’d even count some as friends.

    I look forward to virtually seeing you on the forum, but please don’t see it as work!

    • Oh, I won’t see it as work, I promise. It’s more a matter of finding the time. Forums can be very time consuming, as I’m sure you are aware, and yours isn’t the only one I’m trying to spend more time on. And you’re spot on in that you do make friends online and you do learn a lot from them, which is another facet that I didn’t really touch on. It’s just, well, time. And not enough of it. I’m battering down plot bunnies as I write, because I figure I’m spreading myself too thinly as it is without even more stories.

      If someone has a working time machine, could you lend it to me please?:)

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